It is often said as opposites attract, but does it hold any substance when those opposites are human beings? What happens next when there are tremors in the paradise?
Life is not always a bed of roses! Astrological predictions are just not about future forecasts. Horoscope also indicates nature preferences, social communication skills and behavior pattern of a person. In Indian society marriages are expected to last forever. Kundali matchmaking of the prospective bride and groom is the only option to ensure their compatibility. Once they get married, their horoscopes also have a combined impact on their future and lifestyle for the rest of their life.
Role of Venus:
Venus the planet ruled by the goddess of beauty and love ,is the significator for marriage and life partner. Placement of Venus in your horoscope describes your married life and life partner. Venus tells about luxuries, fortune in married life, physical pleasure and sensuality .whether a individual will have a early or late marriage or a happy marriage everything depends Venus.
Many of us have experienced attraction to people that we don’t entirely understand. Some time our attraction makes sense, other time our attraction seems entirely irrational. Turning to Astrology will help us find answer. Venus the planet of pleasure, romance and union, for mutual physical attraction between a couple the positioning of Venus in the horoscope is very important. Also Venus provides us with valuable insight into how we approach matters of the heart .Venus rules romantic love, but it also plays a role in our pleasurable attachments in a more general sense. Look at Venus in each other’s chart to see how each individual approaches, views and handles love and relationship.
Apart from Venus there are other planets whose influence is also of utmost importance like MOON who determines “the mental compatibility“ between couples, MERCURY is responsible for creating” common interests “ between the couple, couples will enjoy happy exchanges and share activities. There will be lot of ‘Talk’ in the relationship, strong desire to communicate. SUN offers “common harmony “in the relationship, adds to the charm in marriage. Mars tells about the” sexual magnetism” in a relationship, attraction between the couples, how long the attraction will be, whether the attraction will be smooth and pleasant. In a female’s horoscope it is also useful for calculating the fertility.
IMPORTANCE OF KUNDALI MILAN:
The most important reason of matching kundali (astrological charts )is to ensure that the couples will have a happy and comfortable life. As a kundali (horoscope )lets us know the nature of the person, whether your partner will be sincere in marriage, how will your relationship be with each other, how will your relations be with your in-laws and other family members and the most important thing the sexual compatibility between the couple. One can check the following things through kundali milan.
Guna or Ashtkoot is one of the major parameter taken into consideration while matching the Kundali. Altogether, there are eight gunas that are taken into consideration to test the amity between the two people. Each guna has different numeric points, which when added, sum up to a total of 36. Higher the number of matching points better the compatibility.
MENTAL AND PHYSICAL COMPATIBILITY:
Both the partners mindset, behavior, temper, interest and aptitude are predicted through kundali Milan. The level of physical attraction is tested since marriage cannot survive if there is no feeling of desirability for each other. Moreover, the health condition of the, to be bride groom is also a point to be considered. And this too is revealed by horoscope matching.
FINANCIAL CONDITION AND FAMILY ADJUSTMENT:
Financial stability is one thing that every parent looks into when they get their son or daughter married .What will be the job prospective in the near future, how stable will be the couple’s financial condition, and even chances of promotion are analysed through kundali.
Besides this, the other thing that is tailed is the adjustment parameter. Whether the girl and the boy can adjust with each other and their respective families or not, whether they can adapt to changing situations or not are part of the matching ritual.
ARE THE DESTINIES LINKED?
Yes the destinies are linked, as everyone has their own destiny so wife and husband both have their own destiny however when they marry their destiny is now no more two its now one. It means if male have short life or early death yoga in his horoscope but his wife does not have any widow yoga in her chart so then what will happen, as you can’t change the bad or good event coming into your life so when the time will come of that bad event instead of death he will face any major accident which can cause lot of damage, his wife’s luck has saved him. Similarly if someone has less money or is earning very low then too his wife can bring good money for him. Effect of maximum raj yog in a female horoscope is experienced by her after marriage , both the positive and negative in her chart influences her husband’s destiny, she gets her luck along with her that’s the main reason wife is known as Lakshmi.(goddess of Money and Wealth).
WAYS TO IMPROVE COMPATIBILITY:
As suggested by Vedic Astrology one can propitiate a planet on the day of your seventh house (for your horoscope), for example if mars is the ruler of your 7th house (i.e Gemini or Virgo)then on Wednesday the day ruled by mars ,you can try fasting during daylight hours or remain a vegetarian the entire day.
Donate wheat flour and jaggery to people you feel are needy can be a maid of the house or a beggar.
Offering flute and betel leaves to lord Krishna will surely help improve conjugal life.
Worship Moon planet it gives success in love.